Chinese New Year, Why Bother?

​ As Chinese New Year approaches, I’m reminded of the yearly tradition where one visits their relatives/friends. Post exchanging of mandarin oranges and well wishes in Chinese (darn it..), one embarks on their conquest to discover which household has the best pineapple tarts, Ba-Kwa or those deep fried artificial crabsticks.. Yumm! One often dreads the exchange of (sometimes) superficial questions regarding if ones is marital status, study path, work etc). Strange as it sounds, I think that’s the beauty of CNY. The yearly affair where everyone sets aside their differences (& crazy schedules) as they catch up regardless of whichever walk in life they might be at.

Fragility of Life The day begins early with a sushi-rolling maneuver out of bed. Of course, this is after not getting much rest from the previous day. Post sushi antics, a glance or stare (most likely stoning) of ourselves in the mirror complements A quick wash-up, adornment of “working clothes” is followed by (obviously not) a hearty breakfast with our loved ones including the wrap up via the exchanging of hugs and kisses This “morning circuit” is often concluded by a brisk walk/sprint towards a mode of public transportation/multi-story car park, as one realizes they are late for the registration of what we call, the “Rat Race”; many people view work as a seemingly endless pursuit with little reward of purpose in life “The trouble with the rat race is that even if you win, you’re still a rat.” – Lily Tomlin I think this illustration below puts it into perspective:

The “week” as we call it, recklessly proceeds to hurl impossible project deadlines, a mix of emotions and terrible lunches etc at one. As the weekend approaches, the star “TGIF” arrives and is dearly embraced by doing something that we enjoy. This is followed by the PMS (Pre Monday Syndrome) where we dread for the following week to begin. Lets not forget to intentionally set aside time, to take breathers and moments to reflect on how we can improve not just our own lives, but those around us as well

Family Comes First Well.. Not only does one share the same surname and same house they grew up in. I believe blood ties run deeper than what it seems like at the surface. Whether we like it or not, they have and will always be there for us. Misunderstandings, cold wars and ridiculous arguments occur on a regular basis no matter how many years pass, but that’s the beauty of it. Via ones imperfections they are made perfect

How about Friends? Given the humongous size of Singapore, bumping into friends is something, which happens to us very often. Some of us wave & say hi, pause for a hug/handshake and maybe.. just maybe.. for some, look away so the other party doesn’t see one. It’s never too late for us to kindle current relationships, and even rekindle the past relationships which one feels might often be too outdated or awkward. I believe that behind every smile, lay hurts and tears. Time is essential for everyone to resolve the root of the issue. This however, can only be championed upon the cornerstone in every mutual relationship: Love

Without Love, we are Nothing.. So.. As we open up our hearts (& tummies!) this season, remember that even the simplest gesture of sincere kindness towards someone might just make their day/week! What are your thoughts regarding Chinese New Year? Feel free to leave a comment below J p.s. Queue cutting and free drinks are just a few perks/side effects of having family & friends :P